Cops enforce the municipal, state, and federal law.
Teachers enforce school regulations.
Bosses enforce work policy.
Parents enforce familial rules.
Bishops, rabbis, and imams enforce religious doctrine.
Who enforces personal growth though? Perhaps people that catalyze growth defy categorization, spurn social hierarchies and span vast temporal and physical distances? People who fit both all and none of the aforementioned roles?
Nature wires humans to thrive under social contracts. So who do you trust enough to enforce your personal development?